Ruthless men not only burn women’s face but also destroy her life!

 

From last few days, I was hearing different news about acid throw on college girls, women and even children. Such kind of news forced me to write something about this heinous crime of society.

When vicious person throw acid on woman, in this process not only burn her face or body but also her whole life. If atrocious person punished, can we properly save victim’s life? Is she can live same life before acid attack?

Does doctor make same effected parts like God gave woman? In any crime this punishment or action is not acceptable at any coast. As a human being we should raise voice against this heinous crime.

In Pakistan this crime has been increasing day by day. If women obey men’s order then okay; if she rejects then she deserve punishment and punishment decided by men.  He will decide either murdered her or throw acid or treat with brutality.

This crime was common in our villages but now this crime is also caught in cities. We are listening many news about this crime. Why we never find to listen, wife’s throw acid on husband because of his loose character. Wife’s murdered her Husband  because of his obscene activities.

If accidentally our police detained criminal he is simply said she had loose character that’s why I had done this. When police investigate all the matter; find 90 percent women are innocent in that kind of cases; and proved they were liar. Few of them, got punishment; mostly set free on the base of settlement.

When we talk about character, men immediately talk about Islam and said Islam gave him permission to strictly punish women. Here is a question raise in my mind; it is the religion who gave order human to be kind even with animals. How can Islam allows to persecute any human being in brutality manner?

Many laws are present in our country but there is no implementation. Acid attacks became illegal in Pakistan in 2010 when parliament passed the Acid Control and Acid Crime Prevention Bill, which can carry punishments of lifetime imprisonment. But the law is rarely enforced in rural areas, so acid attacks continue.

HRCP recorded 51 cases of acid attacks with 67 female victims in 2016. Using statistics to support her claim, Khan-Yusfuzai says: “In 2012, only one per cent of the FIRs were registered under this law. In 2013, that percentage rose to 71.”

Mostly, women are not reported FIR against this illegal activity, if any woman reported, her family bear down to take back FIR before punishment. Now that’s fault of our people not our laws.

Personal satisfaction or revenge in some domestic issue is basic reason of this crime and criminal shouldn’t refer our ‘sacred religion’ when he commit this atrocious crime. Throw acid on women is completely vicious activity, so we should take action against this crime.

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میں ہونا آسان نہیں !!!

وہ جان کر مایوس ہوے
کہ میں انسان ہوں دکان نہیں
محفل کے ذرق وشوق کا
یہاں کوئی سامان نہیں
تماشے میں جیت جانے کو
ہر ایک دل لُبھانے کو
ہوں زرا بھی پریشان نہیں
لوگوں کی کم نگاہی پہ اور
اس سے مچی تباہی پہ
.بلکل بھی حیران نہیں
یہ میرے بالوں کی اُلجھنیں
…ان کی تو داستان نہیں
یہ میری آنکھوں کی مشکلیں
!کسی غیر کا احسان نہیں
دنیا میں پلا ہوں دنیا سے جلا ہوں
کب کا مر گیا ہوتا پر کیسے ٹلا ہوں
میرا دیس پرستان نہیں
اور جیا بنا تعاوان نہیں
ریکھنے میں لگتا ہے
!!!پر میں ہونا آسان نہیں

A Road Trip:)

I wanna go to a road trip

I want to go with my close friends, an open car with high bass speakers and a digital camera. During journey I want to feel wind in my hairs. I want to stay on different historical and unique places and I will make lots of selfiez and want to capture different scenes.

I will see the sun rise, shining stars and chase the cool winds, feel the soft and citrus flowers and capture the nature; will run behind the butterflies and feel the fragrance of grass. I definitely, want to taste many flavors of coffee from different tuck shops and feel coffee fragrance in my breath.

I want to feel rain on my body; I like to feel every drop of rain in my soul. During journey I want to walk barefooted on Concrete road and want to drink cool water of stream….

Want to see galaxy, count the starts whole night and do gossips with my friends. I want to feel independent like a bird and fly beyond the sky!

Having lots of fun with my good friends; will go dance party with them, no restriction to me on that time! Want to feel full of freedom for my-self. This trip will be wonderful for me which will completely relax my-self. By my side this is the way we will feel fresh and relax in our life 🙂

 

Human can achieve whatever he wants!!!

 Human can achieve whatever he wants, In life, every human have two ways to achieve anything, so a wise man chose the right path to achieve his goals because the right path brings man to his destination.

Well, the difference between right and wrong tells brought up of human. Parents should teach their children what’s wrong and what’s right. It’s necessary that parents should have enough sense to tell their children that is the difference between right and wrong path.

Human face many rejections in life but he shouldn’t give up, only that man can succeed who doesn’t lose his hope and try again and again. In life, something has to be lost to get something.

What’s lost, should be forget about that….! Whatever, human wants to get he must have consistency for it, Well said Paulo Coelho in his book “The Alchemist” “when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” 

Therefore, we should have a lot of courage to achieve our goals.

“December”

 

“December”

I like to see December’s Rain!

I like to feel December’s cold airs

I like to feel December’s fog

I like to hear December’s silence

I like to see December’s nights

I like to see December’s mornings

I like to wet in December’s rain

I like to see December’s less-glare Moon

I like to see December’s shining stars

I like to feel December’s coldness in my soul

I like to see dancing trees on December’s air

I like to hear December’s deep silence!!!

 

A princess or a prisoner

Why Girls suffered in restricted families?

I’m not trying to hit any specific cast and religion, I’m trying to point out those restricted families who don’t allows their daughters to take even a single breath independently.
This issue is not only belongs to Pakistan many people of different countries are also facing this kind of gender discrimination, but today I’m only talking about my country. Unfortunately, in Pakistan, girls who were born in the backward and restricted families face different types of discrimination.
Girls also bore injustice on the basis of gender if he is a man so he has a permission to do whatever he want… but if she is a girl so they don’t allows to live her life.
I’m here to enlightening the life of girls ‘who have everything in life except life!’
She can’t go alone outside or to make decisions for her own life, she can’t laugh loudly, they restricts her in wearing, Abaya and veil as these are necessary for her life, many other restrictions she bear in her whole life.
Her father and brother treated her harshly. Every common girl who belongs to restricted family is facing all these types of inferiority in family. She bears and had to live in this pain.
I want to shed light on tribal, northern and nomadic areas where girls sold and bought like animals. They even didn’t allow her to express their pain; fought for her rights. She is living like corpse!
Girls faced many grim situations but didn’t complain against this injustice. If she tried to raise her voice against injustice so they suppressed her voice for life time. She doesn’t have her own life she lives according to her family orders.
She treated them in very brutality manners. She can’t marry according to her own will, can’t see dreams for her own self, didn’t made decision for her own self, didn’t allow to chase her dreams! She lived like a prisoner and as her family want to.
She didn’t have any freedom of speech even, perhaps, before marriage they bear little bit oppression but after marriage they bear all kind of injustice, as compare to before marriage’s life, her husband beats and crushes her rights but she bears silently and doesn’t raise her voice against injustice or offenses activities.
She is not only bear all mass for herself but she is also creating history and establishing injustice for her own race those will be also suffer in future.
Childhood engagements also common in these types of families they didn’t even think once what kind of future they are giving to their princess! when they think about their decision the time has been passed yet they couldn’t help her.
Especially, when they forcefully tied her with anyone because their princess is their own property and made their princess scapegoat on the name of Izaat!
Girl who is a part of the conservative family she really couldn’t know, when she became victim from princess!
As an educated woman I think, we should raise our voice against any kind of injustice. If Islam gives women rights so why we put aside those rights for our so cold family who don’t even thinks we are human not animals! So why we should bothers them?
Freedom is our basic right, so how our family or parents can put us behind the bars for the sake of house or family respects. If they don’t care about our feelings and self-respect so why we care about them? If we want to fly beyond the sky so we should do it but live in our limits. We should also follow our rules as a girl.
Someone well said “Woman is like a stream until stream flow in their limits it brings happiness but when it crosses their limits then brings destruction”

Choosing your husband is also choosing your future!

Provoked Movie review:
Provoked is a British biographical drama film, pictured on reality based story. This is maybe not super hit movie but its plot is very strong because it’s hitting on a bitter reality of our society…
Last night I felt boredom so I decided to watch some interesting movie suddenly I saw an English Hindi movie “provoked” which released in 2006. After watched this movie I felt very bad for our Asian women, those parents teaches them everything except how to save their self-respect! How to save humanity for being abused!
Kiranjit Ahluwalia is playing a lead role in this movie she belonged to a small village of Punjab; she was very innocent chic clad girl. She wed with a UK based boy, this is a typical arranged marriage, after wedding she moved to UK with her husband.
In the beginning she lived life full of color and fantasy with him but after sometime he exposed his real color to her. During these circumstances she gave the birth to two baby boys. They were also cute like mother. In this movie a husband is showed as an ugly man who felt complex with his wife’s beauty!
He was beaten and physical abused her since ten years. He is psychopath and atrocious person, alcoholic addicted, made scum relations and slept with other girls; treated her ruthlessly as an animal, even than she bore all his vicious and oppression because of marriage.
At the end she burned him when one night he was sleeping alcoholic. At last she took a criminal step and committed a crime. She didn’t think once which type of crime she was doing.
She is afraid of him. Her whole body showed the vicious activities of her husband. Not even a single part of her body was saved from her husband’s offenses. After that court put her behind the bars under the act of attempt to murder but unluckily in a short time he died; then court gave a verdict against her for 12 years sentenced!
During the hearing of case she was feeling ashamed by telling her whole story in front of judge and people she also faced the problem of language barrier; she couldn’t speak proper English that was worst thing as a defender!

A question raised in my mind, are we prepare our daughters just for marriage? This is enough for a girl who later become a mother and responsible of our race…
One thing that really attracted to me was the strong role of media. This is true, media have a power to change many minds we can used it as a propaganda tool; can also use it for both right and wrong but it works. One N.G.O’s also involved in her matter and they tried to get freedom for her; also used media in that regard.
N.G.O also wrote a book on the life history of victim. She lived a horrible, miserable life with husband. The words of her in this movie touched my heart she said, “ instead of my husband I’m feeling safe in the jail”. This is very shameful words for a real man whose wife feels insecure with him!
She faced a very hard time in jail but “God” helped her and sent her a very good friend like an angle who helped her for the bail; N.G.O also helped her and her book exposed a real story of her life.
This is a very good and impressive movie have a hidden massage for all women. Power didn’t in body, power is in the brain so woman especially Asian woman should use their mental power and should respect her own self-respect!