Why we are afraid to talk about rape?

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Is it a sin to talk about rape???

 

Is it a sin to talk about rape? Why we are frightened to talk about rape? Why victim of rape is scared, rapist should afraid, who committed crime. Why we are always blame on girl in such vicious crime which she  face in her whole life. Only girl is not the victim of rape but entire family has to face it.

Why our society doesn’t give the right of survival to victim? Most of the time we hear that girl show some vin to attain attention in sense of rape. Why do people forget? This ruthless crime can also be with own family. The problem arises when victim treat as a culprit they do not even talk about this incident. These are the questions came to my mind whenever I hear about rape.

Why we are afraid? We should change our behavior about this barbarous crime, society should change their stereotype thinking. If we will not talk on this issue the crime rate will increase day by day.

Now a days rape rate has been increasing day by day in Pakistan. Daily we hear the rape news in different parts of country. This is extreme level of injustice that culprits live freely and victim trying to hide their self.

The data of registered cases, at least 206 gang-raped, 2840 raped, and 681 have been murdered across the country, In total, more than 5660 crimes were reported against women in Pakistan’s four provinces during the first 10 months of the year.

These are the cases that have been reported but there are many incidents that haven’t yet been reported; which gives courage to culprit and he once again commit this vicious crime with another girl. Nowadays rapist first rape, then murder her so that they don’t leave back proof. This is the result of our silence.

 Our silence gave courage to culprits. In present, rape victim Abida in Chichawatni is an enormous example to us; firstly she raped then ruthlessly murdered. After take notice by chief justice of Pakistan concerned department listened the voice of her family.

If we through back we found a brave woman who took stand, reported FIR and fought fearlessly for justice and raised her voice against criminals then the culprits were punished through high court of Pakistan; she was suffered but didn’t lose hope and created an example for other, she didn’t go with the stereotype thinking of our society.

 Her name is Mukhtaran mai, now she is treated as an icon and invited in different shows, red carpet and try to spread awareness among other women through her.

Nowadays, we need to raise voice against this ruthless crime; we should stand up with victim and trying to get justice, it is necessary for the integrity and survival of our daughters and sisters. Government should make some strict laws and should try to impose them against rapist and take immediately action against criminals. This is the way we save our families.

 

 

 

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Ruthless men not only burn women’s face but also destroy her life!

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From last few days, I was hearing different news about acid throw on college girls, women and even children. Such kind of news forced me to write something about this heinous crime of society.

When vicious person throw acid on woman, in this process not only burn her face or body but also her whole life. If atrocious person punished, can we properly save victim’s life? Is she can live same life before acid attack?

Does doctor make same effected parts like God gave woman? In any crime this punishment or action is not acceptable at any coast. As a human being we should raise voice against this heinous crime.

In Pakistan this crime has been increasing day by day. If women obey men’s order then okay; if she rejects then she deserve punishment and punishment decided by men.  He will decide either murdered her or throw acid or treat with brutality.

This crime was common in our villages but now this crime is also caught in cities. We are listening many news about this crime. Why we never find to listen, wife’s throw acid on husband because of his loose character. Wife’s murdered her Husband  because of his obscene activities.

If accidentally our police detained criminal he is simply said she had loose character that’s why I had done this. When police investigate all the matter; find 90 percent women are innocent in that kind of cases; and proved they were liar. Few of them, got punishment; mostly set free on the base of settlement.

When we talk about character, men immediately talk about Islam and said Islam gave him permission to strictly punish women. Here is a question raise in my mind; it is the religion who gave order human to be kind even with animals. How can Islam allows to persecute any human being in brutality manner?

Many laws are present in our country but there is no implementation. Acid attacks became illegal in Pakistan in 2010 when parliament passed the Acid Control and Acid Crime Prevention Bill, which can carry punishments of lifetime imprisonment. But the law is rarely enforced in rural areas, so acid attacks continue.

HRCP recorded 51 cases of acid attacks with 67 female victims in 2016. Using statistics to support her claim, Khan-Yusfuzai says: “In 2012, only one per cent of the FIRs were registered under this law. In 2013, that percentage rose to 71.”

Mostly, women are not reported FIR against this illegal activity, if any woman reported, her family bear down to take back FIR before punishment. Now that’s fault of our people not our laws.

Personal satisfaction or revenge in some domestic issue is basic reason of this crime and criminal shouldn’t refer our ‘sacred religion’ when he commit this atrocious crime. Throw acid on women is completely vicious activity, so we should take action against this crime.

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میں ہونا آسان نہیں !!!

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وہ جان کر مایوس ہوے
کہ میں انسان ہوں دکان نہیں
محفل کے ذرق وشوق کا
یہاں کوئی سامان نہیں
تماشے میں جیت جانے کو
ہر ایک دل لُبھانے کو
ہوں زرا بھی پریشان نہیں
لوگوں کی کم نگاہی پہ اور
اس سے مچی تباہی پہ
.بلکل بھی حیران نہیں
یہ میرے بالوں کی اُلجھنیں
…ان کی تو داستان نہیں
یہ میری آنکھوں کی مشکلیں
!کسی غیر کا احسان نہیں
دنیا میں پلا ہوں دنیا سے جلا ہوں
کب کا مر گیا ہوتا پر کیسے ٹلا ہوں
میرا دیس پرستان نہیں
اور جیا بنا تعاوان نہیں
ریکھنے میں لگتا ہے
!!!پر میں ہونا آسان نہیں

A Road Trip:)

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I wanna go to a road trip

I want to go with my close friends, an open car with high bass speakers and a digital camera. During journey I want to feel wind in my hairs. I want to stay on different historical and unique places and I will make lots of selfiez and want to capture different scenes.

I will see the sun rise, shining stars and chase the cool winds, feel the soft and citrus flowers and capture the nature; will run behind the butterflies and feel the fragrance of grass. I definitely, want to taste many flavors of coffee from different tuck shops and feel coffee fragrance in my breath.

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I want to feel rain on my body; I like to feel every drop of rain in my soul. During journey I want to walk barefooted on Concrete road and want to drink cool water of stream….

Want to see galaxy, count the starts whole night and do gossips with my friends. I want to feel independent like a bird and fly beyond the sky!

Having lots of fun with my good friends; will go dance party with them, no restriction to me on that time! Want to feel full of freedom for my-self. This trip will be wonderful for me which will completely relax my-self. By my side this is the way we will feel fresh and relax in our life 🙂

 

Human can achieve whatever he wants!!!

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 Human can achieve whatever he wants, In life, every human have two ways to achieve anything, so a wise man chose the right path to achieve his goals because the right path brings man to his destination.

Well, the difference between right and wrong tells brought up of human. Parents should teach their children what’s wrong and what’s right. It’s necessary that parents should have enough sense to tell their children that is the difference between right and wrong path.

Human face many rejections in life but he shouldn’t give up, only that man can succeed who doesn’t lose his hope and try again and again. In life, something has to be lost to get something.

What’s lost, should be forget about that….! Whatever, human wants to get he must have consistency for it, Well said Paulo Coelho in his book “The Alchemistwhen you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” 

Therefore, we should have a lot of courage to achieve our goals.

“December”

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“December”

I like to see December’s Rain!

I like to feel December’s cold airs

I like to feel December’s fog

I like to hear December’s silence

I like to see December’s nights

I like to see December’s mornings

I like to wet in December’s rain

I like to see December’s less-glare Moon

I like to see December’s shining stars

I like to feel December’s coldness in my soul

I like to see dancing trees on December’s air

I like to hear December’s deep silence!!!

 

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A princess or a prisoner

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Why Girls suffered in restricted families?

I’m not trying to hit any specific cast and religion, I’m trying to point out those restricted families who don’t allows their daughters to take even a single breath independently.
This issue is not only belongs to Pakistan many people of different countries are also facing this kind of gender discrimination, but today I’m only talking about my country. Unfortunately, in Pakistan, girls who were born in the backward and restricted families face different types of discrimination.
Girls also bore injustice on the basis of gender if he is a man so he has a permission to do whatever he want… but if she is a girl so they don’t allows to live her life.
I’m here to enlightening the life of girls ‘who have everything in life except life!’
She can’t go alone outside or to make decisions for her own life, she can’t laugh loudly, they restricts her in wearing, Abaya and veil as these are necessary for her life, many other restrictions she bear in her whole life.
Her father and brother treated her harshly. Every common girl who belongs to restricted family is facing all these types of inferiority in family. She bears and had to live in this pain.
I want to shed light on tribal, northern and nomadic areas where girls sold and bought like animals. They even didn’t allow her to express their pain; fought for her rights. She is living like corpse!
Girls faced many grim situations but didn’t complain against this injustice. If she tried to raise her voice against injustice so they suppressed her voice for life time. She doesn’t have her own life she lives according to her family orders.
She treated them in very brutality manners. She can’t marry according to her own will, can’t see dreams for her own self, didn’t made decision for her own self, didn’t allow to chase her dreams! She lived like a prisoner and as her family want to.
She didn’t have any freedom of speech even, perhaps, before marriage they bear little bit oppression but after marriage they bear all kind of injustice, as compare to before marriage’s life, her husband beats and crushes her rights but she bears silently and doesn’t raise her voice against injustice or offenses activities.
She is not only bear all mass for herself but she is also creating history and establishing injustice for her own race those will be also suffer in future.
Childhood engagements also common in these types of families they didn’t even think once what kind of future they are giving to their princess! when they think about their decision the time has been passed yet they couldn’t help her.
Especially, when they forcefully tied her with anyone because their princess is their own property and made their princess scapegoat on the name of Izaat!
Girl who is a part of the conservative family she really couldn’t know, when she became victim from princess!
As an educated woman I think, we should raise our voice against any kind of injustice. If Islam gives women rights so why we put aside those rights for our so cold family who don’t even thinks we are human not animals! So why we should bothers them?
Freedom is our basic right, so how our family or parents can put us behind the bars for the sake of house or family respects. If they don’t care about our feelings and self-respect so why we care about them? If we want to fly beyond the sky so we should do it but live in our limits. We should also follow our rules as a girl.
Someone well said “Woman is like a stream until stream flow in their limits it brings happiness but when it crosses their limits then brings destruction”